I guess I'm driving at finding out what the girl thinks of me again, I know, the alpha man puts his own desires first, HE's the one to qualify the girl.
Do you think my approach might work with the shy, quiet, low-key type of girl who I'm interested in a relationship with, or is the "tell, don't ask" policy still the best? I just didn't want you to walk up to a seasoned player and be all wimpy.
Remember man, there are some cruel girls out there, and hippy may say she'd turn this Free dating housewives but she's not every girl, it sounded stronger than I meant it to be, but this is just a safeguard for biatches that really don't deserve the time of day. But yeah, do your thing man.
You ask her if she would like to go on a date, and tell her what you think the activity should be, and if she rejects you, you move on. You really want to be an Alpha?
Focus on being a good man, and people will follow you. Respect is earned by deeds, and respect makes you an Alpha, not ordering.
Because as soon as someone refuses your order, you will crumble.